10-13-2009, 02:00 AM
I would say give people some more tolorance, try to make friends rather then spit on the details of them that you dislike. Loneliness is a hurtful feeling indeed, but it can be cured with fun (yes it's cliche). Talk with people, get involved, have a laugh or two. Try to change your attitude too when you're around certain people, talk to them about what they're interested in; people like certain things so show them some of your personality but not all E.g engage them in a conversation about motorbikes for example but exclude the fact that you have a leather fetish or something, that sort of thing. It helps me get along with others very well, and i hope it would help you too. If you can't find anyone in your local area, theres plenty of others that you can talk to online, especially on the DaD.
Second thing i'd just like to say: Homophobic world. Yes, people can react strongly to difference and nowadays alot of people are against the flourish of homosexual lifestyles. I'm a bisexual, i'll admit that but i don't bang on about it or walk with my hips waving 5 inches side to side or dress a certain way for the same reason that i don't do the same because of my hair colour. Inevitably it'll become acceptable but until then i'm just going to keep a low profile in public and walk like any other person.
Finally, get a grip on yourself please. Theres no real nice way to say this but you really have to suck up and enjoy the good parts of life. You're human, you have your own personality and ways of entertaining yourself and you're perfectly competant of finding something you like and using it as a hobby. Take your artwork for example, you must enjoy that or else why go to the trouble?
In my eyes, you're a normal guy of the world; to my knowledge you haven't broken any laws or bulldozed half of my house so thats pretty okay with me. You just have to be a bit more tolerant of people in the world and learn that it's good to stop and think before you blurt out something that could really hurt someone. You say you don't care, but now that you're alone it seems very clear to me that you do care.
Sorry if any of what i've said has been hurtful to you, but i hope that i've helped in some way.
Second thing i'd just like to say: Homophobic world. Yes, people can react strongly to difference and nowadays alot of people are against the flourish of homosexual lifestyles. I'm a bisexual, i'll admit that but i don't bang on about it or walk with my hips waving 5 inches side to side or dress a certain way for the same reason that i don't do the same because of my hair colour. Inevitably it'll become acceptable but until then i'm just going to keep a low profile in public and walk like any other person.
Finally, get a grip on yourself please. Theres no real nice way to say this but you really have to suck up and enjoy the good parts of life. You're human, you have your own personality and ways of entertaining yourself and you're perfectly competant of finding something you like and using it as a hobby. Take your artwork for example, you must enjoy that or else why go to the trouble?
In my eyes, you're a normal guy of the world; to my knowledge you haven't broken any laws or bulldozed half of my house so thats pretty okay with me. You just have to be a bit more tolerant of people in the world and learn that it's good to stop and think before you blurt out something that could really hurt someone. You say you don't care, but now that you're alone it seems very clear to me that you do care.
Sorry if any of what i've said has been hurtful to you, but i hope that i've helped in some way.
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