05-23-2009, 10:24 PM
Okay, first off i'd like to say that i'm glad you're seeing the bad side of trolling better (i'm talking about your thread to get reactions off people) and that i'm glad to hear you're trying to be better at socialising. But if you really want to make friends, tone down the bluntness of your attitude. People respond better to someone who seemed pleased to be talking with them, for example:
A: Hey whats up?
B: hey there, how're you doing man?
now if B replied
B: my feelings are not important.
then A would feel alienated and not likely to want to talk much. I know you have Autism, but it really isn't hard to learn how people work. I've probably got a list as long as Megidramon's tail of things that are up with me, but i still try to make people feel welcome when talking to me.
Secondly, you're a great artist on photoshop and i've seen and marveled at your work. You've made your own group which turned out to be quite popular contrary to my belief and it is quite interesting how you bonded together so many in the name of creativity. If YOU want to leave, then the gates are open friend, but like DMX says don't let people make the choice for you.
One more thing, your fued with Darkchibimon shouldn't have any concern with me so i apologise for not being able to address your final point. Oh and Magus isn't that bad, she can be catty and rather outspoken but she has some redeeming qualities.
Something i will say though is that if you honestly are trying to make more friends then enemies, think about what i said of people wanting to be respected. Also try to understand how to talk to certain people in ways they would appreciate, even if they dislike some of the stuff you like or vice versa. You can feel free to discard this advise, or use it.
I don't want you to leave, you can be sure of that.
A: Hey whats up?
B: hey there, how're you doing man?
now if B replied
B: my feelings are not important.
then A would feel alienated and not likely to want to talk much. I know you have Autism, but it really isn't hard to learn how people work. I've probably got a list as long as Megidramon's tail of things that are up with me, but i still try to make people feel welcome when talking to me.
Secondly, you're a great artist on photoshop and i've seen and marveled at your work. You've made your own group which turned out to be quite popular contrary to my belief and it is quite interesting how you bonded together so many in the name of creativity. If YOU want to leave, then the gates are open friend, but like DMX says don't let people make the choice for you.
One more thing, your fued with Darkchibimon shouldn't have any concern with me so i apologise for not being able to address your final point. Oh and Magus isn't that bad, she can be catty and rather outspoken but she has some redeeming qualities.
Something i will say though is that if you honestly are trying to make more friends then enemies, think about what i said of people wanting to be respected. Also try to understand how to talk to certain people in ways they would appreciate, even if they dislike some of the stuff you like or vice versa. You can feel free to discard this advise, or use it.
I don't want you to leave, you can be sure of that.
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