08-26-2006, 12:16 PM
rorancrystalwolf Wrote:Hey all,
It's me once again ranting about my dad. As you all may have concluded, my dad is a total ass. Today we decided to go to a local city wide garage sale to look around and the like. I saw a really nice hunting knife set and the spark was lit. I love knives and I jokingly said to my mom." Hey mom can I get that knife set." She asked about them and I pointed them out. My dad said no and I said I was kidding. Then I confessed about my hobby of collecting knives and blades. They saw a package I recieved a day earlier. They asked what was in it and I replied " Pictures from a friend over seas" Well here is where the problems begin,
When we got home from the garage sale palooza my dad asked to see the pictures and I went upstairs and brought down what really came in the mail. I ordered a black 5 - blade shuriken and it finally came... I brought it downstairs and showed it to him. Then he made me get my swords and other 2 knives out of my lock box. Then he proceeded to tell me how low and dirty I was to lie to him about this. I tried to explain that I did it because I thought it was in best interest of the family since they think I am unreliable and unresponsible. He gave me my sword back so I was kinda happy about that.
Here is the problem. We have had this " responsibility and lying" talk before and he doesn't see that I hate him. He thinks that my life should be an open book... well even if it was I wouldn't let him read it. I hate my dad and he is threatening to take away all my activities if I don't stop lying. He want's to watch me get on and off the bus, no dance, no friends over, no movies, no driving, no work, no nothing! I don't get it... I don't think he sees that I don't bring friend s over to my house that often because I want them to stay away from my dad because he is a total ass.
Is there something here that I am not seeing or am too angry to care about or is he right about me being a dirty irresponsible shit? :?:
He's right about you lying to him. Be honest for god's sake. Why are you angry at him? Why do you hate him so much? He didn't even take the blades AWAY, which I would have done in the same situation, since I wouldn't be able to trust you and wouldn't know what you were going to do with those things.