08-24-2006, 11:27 AM
well please understand that I didn't have them under lock and key to hide them, I did it so my little brother couldn't get to them... he is only 6 and shouldn't be around that.
You are 16 in college? Lucky, my parents couldn't do that when we had the chance and that pisses me off. Anyway, I normally get angry about him banning my friends and etc. because him and I both know that if I don't have any social activities or anything out of the house I become a hazard to myself. Then again that is the reason I have a psychiatrist. Also, I don't apologize because he angers me too much and I get flustered. Besides, I am not going to apologize for something so small or stupid. Sure it means that I am being a prick but I normally don't want to lower myself to his basic understanding of love and acceptance, or dignity for that matter.
Hmm an angel, eh? I could try... but I am not sure if I can pull that off.. I am pretty far from an angel
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Don't worry I really appreciate the advice. As for me and my dad, things are getting better, I am talking to him more and trying to be myself around him and he is taking notice and I can't be happier. I cant wait to see what happens with this. then again I will need to learn to be assertive with him at one point or another. I have to go start looking for my balls. Post Later.
Quote:I'm 16, in college, still at home. Quite frankly, when my Parents banned friends from comming over, I didnt complain at all. I just apologized a day later for whatever I did. Eventually, I gained a certain amount of trust, and I was given more and more privleges. I started trying in school, got A's, stoped getting into trouble, that kind of stuff.
You are 16 in college? Lucky, my parents couldn't do that when we had the chance and that pisses me off. Anyway, I normally get angry about him banning my friends and etc. because him and I both know that if I don't have any social activities or anything out of the house I become a hazard to myself. Then again that is the reason I have a psychiatrist. Also, I don't apologize because he angers me too much and I get flustered. Besides, I am not going to apologize for something so small or stupid. Sure it means that I am being a prick but I normally don't want to lower myself to his basic understanding of love and acceptance, or dignity for that matter.
Quote:Give your dad some time, and you could help by acting like an angel.
Hmm an angel, eh? I could try... but I am not sure if I can pull that off.. I am pretty far from an angel
.Quote:I appologize if that sounded mean, or arrogant, or just wasnt my place to say. Just trying to help. I would make it sound alot beter if I was talking in person, just ask my freinds. (i got alot of messed up freinds. it's what happens when you go to a school for expelled students.)
Hope you can work things out with your dad.
Don't worry I really appreciate the advice. As for me and my dad, things are getting better, I am talking to him more and trying to be myself around him and he is taking notice and I can't be happier. I cant wait to see what happens with this. then again I will need to learn to be assertive with him at one point or another. I have to go start looking for my balls. Post Later.
