Sorry to ask but are any of the yaoi ppl actualy male or gay

[Frisk E. Coyote]

Mmm... Hot steamy man smex. XD It's fun being me sometimes! Anything'll turn me on!

Ooh, methinks that Futa are basically women with male genitalia (testicles included), while herms are women with dicks in place of their clits, a pussy, and no visible balls. Some like herms with balls and pussy though. X3

I'm not so sure if males gaining uber muscles and growing 5000 feet while enjoying themselves count as Yaoi though. That would be a solo after all, and that can be enjoyed by both males and females! Well, except for the specific fetishes! X3

Yaoi would be two, male 5000ft hyper-musclefurs doing each other! Mrrf... we call that M/M actually...

Yaoi in Japan is aimed at young women. The males are often girly or effeminate, or just beautiful and slender. Sex there is pretty and elegant, and a lot of it isn't even shown, from what I've seen.

Bara is the equivalent targeted at gay males. Sex is rough and explicitly shown, and the men are hairy or muscular or very manly, and lotsa rape is involved from my experience with Doujins. X3