06-05-2006, 03:24 PM
Lets see break ups....Let's see if I have any......
Had a girlfriend for 5 and a half years.....
> 2 and a half of those years she was cheating on me with another man...
> I respected her and treated her like a queen and had to break up with her because assholes were harressing her and I couldn't see her hurt....
> She moves to another town, and we lose touch...
> She gets pregnant...
> I deal with rumors that I am the father and thats hard because the furthest base i ever got to was second.....which is feel by the way.....
> Still a Virgin...
How did I deal with that?......and some other ones....hmmm.....
I went on a self exploration, I've put myself first for a while and made me, the person that I was neglecting finally enjoy what life is and I enjoyed being single....and believe you me the pain will go away in time but a good solution is to set time for yourself and learn a new hobby or go dating...Replace the negative with the positive...like when you feel down about it buy some ice cream......
The most important thing is to not let yourself fall into a deep void depression which is easy to dig and hard to get out of......
Another good thing is to relax in the company of good friends because for now they are there and are willing to help you.......
and Time is a pain but in time you will heal....I am still recouping from it.....I was 11 at the time and I finished with her when I was 16 and a half and the pain is still there.....I mean we are friends now and thats good to...
I really hope your breakup and experience wasn't as bad as mine and I hope that you could find peace within yourself...I hope I was insightful.....I really do........
Had a girlfriend for 5 and a half years.....
> 2 and a half of those years she was cheating on me with another man...
> I respected her and treated her like a queen and had to break up with her because assholes were harressing her and I couldn't see her hurt....
> She moves to another town, and we lose touch...
> She gets pregnant...
> I deal with rumors that I am the father and thats hard because the furthest base i ever got to was second.....which is feel by the way.....
> Still a Virgin...
How did I deal with that?......and some other ones....hmmm.....
I went on a self exploration, I've put myself first for a while and made me, the person that I was neglecting finally enjoy what life is and I enjoyed being single....and believe you me the pain will go away in time but a good solution is to set time for yourself and learn a new hobby or go dating...Replace the negative with the positive...like when you feel down about it buy some ice cream......
The most important thing is to not let yourself fall into a deep void depression which is easy to dig and hard to get out of......
Another good thing is to relax in the company of good friends because for now they are there and are willing to help you.......
and Time is a pain but in time you will heal....I am still recouping from it.....I was 11 at the time and I finished with her when I was 16 and a half and the pain is still there.....I mean we are friends now and thats good to...
I really hope your breakup and experience wasn't as bad as mine and I hope that you could find peace within yourself...I hope I was insightful.....I really do....
