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[Rational passion]

Also, Wise, for a woman to be sexually aroused by a man who does not fit what she percieves as her type, she would need a very good imagination, or at least some other kind of stimulus such as her favorite porn video to help her fantasize about who she would rather be with.

I actually have an example that proves you wrong. I aroused my ex, but she broke up with me because I wasn't her type.

In this, I'm going to have to disagree with my gf.. A woman can be aroused by anything whether she likes it or not. But most can't have an orgasm unless they are with someone they are genuinely attracted to, or fantasize about someone else. I've never had a problem with that though.. I can find something attractive about just about anyone. Although it is easier if I don't have to try.

And it is easier for an attractive person to arouse a partner, but even (as one of my friends would put it) A goofy lookin fucker, can get the job done if they know what they're doing.