08-29-2004, 03:22 PM
hmm...ya know, i just thought of another thing that 'urks' me, when people threaten suicide but really don't have a good reason.
for example:
i have a friend(who i don't really like) and she said she wanted to kill herself because her mom always wants her in before dark, doesn't want her to go places without telling her and doesn't want her to be a 'goth'. so basically: her mom doesn't want her 13 year old daughter out in the middle of the night, or at someplace where she can't be found in case of emergency, and her mom doesn't want her to become an anti-social freak, yes that sounds like a mother that truely doesn't care about her(note the sarcasm). i think i told her something close to that and she was kinda surprised at me for saying that(because as long as i've known her i've always been the sensitive guy who listens to problems and helps you find answers(something i learned after my friend killed himself).
and um...1 more thing, death really is a serious thing, i don't see how you think it's not serious thing. though you might not care what happens to you after you die, other people(friends and family) do. they need to be consoledand a funeral helps them get on with life.
for example:
i have a friend(who i don't really like) and she said she wanted to kill herself because her mom always wants her in before dark, doesn't want her to go places without telling her and doesn't want her to be a 'goth'. so basically: her mom doesn't want her 13 year old daughter out in the middle of the night, or at someplace where she can't be found in case of emergency, and her mom doesn't want her to become an anti-social freak, yes that sounds like a mother that truely doesn't care about her(note the sarcasm). i think i told her something close to that and she was kinda surprised at me for saying that(because as long as i've known her i've always been the sensitive guy who listens to problems and helps you find answers(something i learned after my friend killed himself).
and um...1 more thing, death really is a serious thing, i don't see how you think it's not serious thing. though you might not care what happens to you after you die, other people(friends and family) do. they need to be consoledand a funeral helps them get on with life.