04-29-2009, 12:21 AM
I'd take that coupon up, but not for my sister. It's not that I hate her, it's just that she was being a complete whore by pulling that stupid stunt of ruining a family outing (Which we can do only when pops comes back from Bragado, the 500km far away town), by filtrating information and making mom thinking I had royally screwed up into everything. I'd use the coupon for her friends when she invites them over and are still laughing loud at 1 AM when I'm trying to sleep.
Yeah, like I said, I talked to mom yesterday, and basically told her it would be nice if next time she would listen to both sides of the story, because while I can't legitimate I'm fully trustworthy in absolutely everything I say (Who is?), I also have my finer points much as my sister does, and just because I didn't do what she expected me to do, doesn't mean she's doing 'everything' the house needs. But yeah, now I'll just break from sharing responsability. All I'll do is to clean what I see dirty every so often, and if she complains, "Do it yourself."
Plus, I don't want her using me as a disposable tissue anymore. I'm consider myself as a great listener, I only advice, and never personally intervene unless it's fully needed, and really, this sucks balls.
MSN:
Sister (Apartment): "I wanna go home..."
Me (At home): "What's up?"
Sister (Apartment): "I don't have money to return, and I know I said I'd stay over the weekend on my own, but now I miss home and I feel bad..."
Me (At home): "Okay, check on my room's nightable, there should be my extra wallet with my savings. Take a 100 pesos bill from there and use it to buy a ticket back home. Don't worry, just use it."
The weekend after that, when we returned here, she came crying that she hated pops because he kept pressuring her in her studies (She reproved Senior High-School's Maths, so if she didn't approve the recuperation exam, she'd be out of college), and I listened and hugged her for an entire hour.
This isn't something I told mom, but I really felt bad upon self-reflection. So yeah, next time, I'll just tell her stuff straight.
Yeah, like I said, I talked to mom yesterday, and basically told her it would be nice if next time she would listen to both sides of the story, because while I can't legitimate I'm fully trustworthy in absolutely everything I say (Who is?), I also have my finer points much as my sister does, and just because I didn't do what she expected me to do, doesn't mean she's doing 'everything' the house needs. But yeah, now I'll just break from sharing responsability. All I'll do is to clean what I see dirty every so often, and if she complains, "Do it yourself."
Plus, I don't want her using me as a disposable tissue anymore. I'm consider myself as a great listener, I only advice, and never personally intervene unless it's fully needed, and really, this sucks balls.
MSN:
Sister (Apartment): "I wanna go home..."
Me (At home): "What's up?"
Sister (Apartment): "I don't have money to return, and I know I said I'd stay over the weekend on my own, but now I miss home and I feel bad..."
Me (At home): "Okay, check on my room's nightable, there should be my extra wallet with my savings. Take a 100 pesos bill from there and use it to buy a ticket back home. Don't worry, just use it."
The weekend after that, when we returned here, she came crying that she hated pops because he kept pressuring her in her studies (She reproved Senior High-School's Maths, so if she didn't approve the recuperation exam, she'd be out of college), and I listened and hugged her for an entire hour.
This isn't something I told mom, but I really felt bad upon self-reflection. So yeah, next time, I'll just tell her stuff straight.
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