06-04-2007, 08:00 AM
My cousin found a good man when he found you D.L., and I hope that the two of you find as much happiness as two people can have together in your lives.
Altima, though I do not know you, it would be wise to heed the advice given here. I doubt anyone will judge should you choose to go through with your plans, and decide to post the details here, but the question remains. Will you be happy with yourself when it is done? Is sex worth so much to you that you would take it so easily from another simply because he lives so near to you, and seems to be a good person online? I have not met this other either, yet I hope he listens to this advice as well. Before you do anything, get to know each other as people, not as your online personas. Then get tested so that you know it will be safe. Then, if you truly care for one another, make a commitment to remain together, whether you tell anyone about it or not, you will feel much better about the outcome in the end.
Altima, though I do not know you, it would be wise to heed the advice given here. I doubt anyone will judge should you choose to go through with your plans, and decide to post the details here, but the question remains. Will you be happy with yourself when it is done? Is sex worth so much to you that you would take it so easily from another simply because he lives so near to you, and seems to be a good person online? I have not met this other either, yet I hope he listens to this advice as well. Before you do anything, get to know each other as people, not as your online personas. Then get tested so that you know it will be safe. Then, if you truly care for one another, make a commitment to remain together, whether you tell anyone about it or not, you will feel much better about the outcome in the end.