04-05-2007, 02:45 PM
Wise.. while I appreciate you trying to help... that wouldn't do any good even if making them hypocrites would change anything... The only people who would know the answer to that is them.. and I do not want to talk to them... I have a loving family now... and while I wish that those on my father's side of the family would accept me... I know that for the most part, it isn't going to happen.
One of Kim's friends, an older man who shall remain nameless at his own request, helped me out a lot earlier today.. I had been telling her a little about my mom.. and I guess I told her my mom's maiden name at some point.. because she mentioned it to her friend, and he told her that he happened to know someone by that name... So she called them, and found out, that it was my grandma...
Me and Dan went to talk to her.. and I found out, that most of my mom's family went through the same thing I did.. just much earlier, so I never met any of them... So now, I have another family to love... its kinda strange to me... but I like it...
Anyway.. I know this part isn't really a rant.. just wanted to let everyone know how it turned out..
One of Kim's friends, an older man who shall remain nameless at his own request, helped me out a lot earlier today.. I had been telling her a little about my mom.. and I guess I told her my mom's maiden name at some point.. because she mentioned it to her friend, and he told her that he happened to know someone by that name... So she called them, and found out, that it was my grandma...
Me and Dan went to talk to her.. and I found out, that most of my mom's family went through the same thing I did.. just much earlier, so I never met any of them... So now, I have another family to love... its kinda strange to me... but I like it...
Anyway.. I know this part isn't really a rant.. just wanted to let everyone know how it turned out..