my special penpal

[Guilmon and a shotgun]

You've got some pretty low standards there. "I'll be with a prisoner, as long as he's tall." Non-convicts are better, even if they're short.

Are you offering yourself as an alternative choice wise? ;)

I don't know. I've seen plenty of people who aren't in prison, who are at least as bad as those who are.

They'll be in there, or have been in there, at some point in their lives though i'll bet.

[Wisemon]

Also, it's a little unfair to judge her choice, without knowing what the man is in for,

Really tall guys aren't usually in for tax fraud.

and you should also consider that it may simply be impossible (Or at least extremely difficult) for her to be aroused by a shorter man. It's actually quite common, especially for a woman who likes to feel protected.

It doesn't work quite as mechanically for women as it does for men, but I bet a short guy with a good mouth can arouse even if she doesn't want to be aroused by him.

Are you offering yourself as an alternative choice wise?

I do have high standards, and by "high," I don't mean tall.

[Asesino]

HA. High standards. Anyway, this whole thing seems like a REALLY bad idea.

[Ryan]

and you should also consider that it may simply be impossible (Or at least extremely difficult) for her to be aroused by a shorter man. It's actually quite common, especially for a woman who likes to feel protected.

I love how relationships have to have sex involved.

But if thats all this was for was to be aroused and to have sex with people. Then be my guest and date this fellow. But if for love do it to. You are not messing anything up. Your not doing any wrong. Are opinions are meaningless to you, or at least it should be. Do what you must say what you will. But happy life to you las.

[UnknownH]

It's actually quite common, especially for a woman who likes to feel protected.

Are you saying a shorter guy couldn't kick your ass?

It doesn't work quite as mechanically for women as it does for men, but I bet a short guy with a good mouth can arouse even if she doesn't want to be aroused by him.
I do have high standards, and by "high," I don't mean tall.

Yeah. Plus, a guy about a head smaller could be very useful at least in that part. And I also know about Wise's standards. I only have standards to Geek/intelligence level and at least be some kind of cute. It's a balance. And breast size but that's a joke.
It just so happens, I have someone who fits these.

[Sarita]

and you should also consider that it may simply be impossible (Or at least extremely difficult) for her to be aroused by a shorter man. It's actually quite common, especially for a woman who likes to feel protected.

I love how relationships have to have sex involved.

But if thats all this was for was to be aroused and to have sex with people. Then be my guest and date this fellow. But if for love do it to. You are not messing anything up. Your not doing any wrong. Are opinions are meaningless to you, or at least it should be. Do what you must say what you will. But happy life to you las.

If she was just looking for a friend to talk to, height wouldn't be an issue. Plus, her previous posts on the subject indicated a desire to have sex with a large man. thus, my sex comment.

In my opinion, a relationship needs more than just sex, but pretending that it isn't a factor in some way would be naive at best.

I also think that intelligence is more important than body type in a long term relationship. But if you're just looking to hook up (Not something I'd reccomend) then the reverse would be true. There are obviously some who would disagree with me on this, and I respect their right to do so.


Also, Wise, for a woman to be sexually aroused by a man who does not fit what she percieves as her type, she would need a very good imagination, or at least some other kind of stimulus such as her favorite porn video to help her fantasize about who she would rather be with.


And for the record, why would it matter if a shorter man could kick my ass? First, I'm exclusively lesbian. Second, I'm the tall one in the relationship. And third, it is easier for a smaller person to feel physically protected in the arms of a larger person, whether or not the larger person is actually capable of offering that protection is irrelevant. (For instance, my gf is about 6 inches shorter than me, but could kick my ass without hardly trying.. Yet, she says she feels much safer with me around.)

[Rational passion]

And for the record, why would it matter if a shorter man could kick my ass? First, I'm exclusively lesbian. Second, I'm the tall one in the relationship. And third, it is easier for a smaller person to feel physically protected in the arms of a larger person, whether or not the larger person is actually capable of offering that protection is irrelevant. (For instance, my gf is about 6 inches shorter than me, but could kick my ass without hardly trying.. Yet, she says she feels much safer with me around.)

This is all very true. Except that for accuracy's sake, I'll point out that I'm 7.5 inches shorter than you.

I don't know the reasons for feeling safer near a larger person. But I'm fairly certain I'm not the only one who feels it. In fact, I feel comfortable saying that our friend Zach probably feels quite safe with David.

[Guilmon and a shotgun]

I love how relationships have to have sex involved.

Sex is more awesome if its only available with someone you like alot. People love exclusivity.

[Ryan]

I love how relationships have to have sex involved.

Sex is more awesome if its only available with someone you like alot. People love exclusivity.

Its pointless enjoyment. Unless you want kids.

[Rational passion]

Its pointless enjoyment. Unless you want kids.

I disagree. Sex is actually quite healthy unless your partner has some kind of STD.

Stress relief is one good point. Communication is another. Some people have a hard time expressing themselves in words. Sex gives them one option.

And, even if it was just enjoyment, why would you say it's pointless? There are many more pointless activities out there that people still engage in.