05-22-2007, 09:05 AM
Oh, Ray, we're really alike in this matter. My sister's fully bitchy when her things ("Friends" and fotologs) are in the middle. I'm really on your side since what you did is no different from what I did last year.
You see, we only have a single PC, so it's always a tenacious fight with her winning because I dislike hearing her yelling and discussions on top of that. I always do what I believe is right. So anyways, that day was raining, we didn't go to school, before mom went I was on the PC, but I said I'd leave it for my sister at 3:30PM. When I WOULD start was 1:30PM, we finished eating at 12:30PM, I just went to bathroom after helping with the washing up, then when I came out she was on. I thought that unfair, but mom was there, and if there's something worse than arguing with my sister, is arguing while mom's there to be on her side.
I just told her I'd use it at 1:30, so that there wouldn't be anymore arguments. No less than 1:40 or so I asked for the PC, she said she had decided she'd stay on my time then leave the PC for me until her normal shift.
That's when it started, I just tried to be reasonable, and she started treating me as a geek. Tired of her insults and for the first time in years of holding up with her, I acted like a big brother and seized her by her arm, then placed her away from the PC while I stood next to it. She started yelling, then she slapped my face. I didn't defend, just stare at her, and after she saw I wasn't doing anything and just piercing her with a gaze she started to tear and I laughed. She left for the bathroom and cried whole afternoon after I completed my part of the deal and at 3:20PM I was out with my trenchcoat for a friend's.
See, this is what I learned to do: If your sisters mocks you or attempts things you consider VERY bad, act as you will, and try to do it where your parents aren't, it'll be harder for her to convince them. AND if they start accusing you, then tell the truth and say like a polite "gentleman" that you need to explain them before taking any punishment or words from them. That's how I earned my dad's respect, but I yet have to consider whether my mother's respect is well-balanced.
You see, we only have a single PC, so it's always a tenacious fight with her winning because I dislike hearing her yelling and discussions on top of that. I always do what I believe is right. So anyways, that day was raining, we didn't go to school, before mom went I was on the PC, but I said I'd leave it for my sister at 3:30PM. When I WOULD start was 1:30PM, we finished eating at 12:30PM, I just went to bathroom after helping with the washing up, then when I came out she was on. I thought that unfair, but mom was there, and if there's something worse than arguing with my sister, is arguing while mom's there to be on her side.
I just told her I'd use it at 1:30, so that there wouldn't be anymore arguments. No less than 1:40 or so I asked for the PC, she said she had decided she'd stay on my time then leave the PC for me until her normal shift.
That's when it started, I just tried to be reasonable, and she started treating me as a geek. Tired of her insults and for the first time in years of holding up with her, I acted like a big brother and seized her by her arm, then placed her away from the PC while I stood next to it. She started yelling, then she slapped my face. I didn't defend, just stare at her, and after she saw I wasn't doing anything and just piercing her with a gaze she started to tear and I laughed. She left for the bathroom and cried whole afternoon after I completed my part of the deal and at 3:20PM I was out with my trenchcoat for a friend's.
See, this is what I learned to do: If your sisters mocks you or attempts things you consider VERY bad, act as you will, and try to do it where your parents aren't, it'll be harder for her to convince them. AND if they start accusing you, then tell the truth and say like a polite "gentleman" that you need to explain them before taking any punishment or words from them. That's how I earned my dad's respect, but I yet have to consider whether my mother's respect is well-balanced.
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