05-08-2010, 09:54 PM
Why not look at your own values?
For starters, do you really want love, according to your values, or is that just a little voice in the back of your mind telling you that you do?
Next, everyone has their own emotional capacities, and cannot fake anything (realistically) above that emotional capacity, so if you're hiding it with doubt, then you're doubting something.
Finally, get out of your house as soon as possible. A person's emotional capacities and values and all this other stuff comes from your environment. If your environment (home and parents) is as negative as you let on to believe, then you need to start sleeping over at someone's house a lot more and leave home as soon as an opportunity arises. (college)
Also, try to make communications with parents minimal, so out of state may be best for you.
For starters, do you really want love, according to your values, or is that just a little voice in the back of your mind telling you that you do?
Next, everyone has their own emotional capacities, and cannot fake anything (realistically) above that emotional capacity, so if you're hiding it with doubt, then you're doubting something.
Finally, get out of your house as soon as possible. A person's emotional capacities and values and all this other stuff comes from your environment. If your environment (home and parents) is as negative as you let on to believe, then you need to start sleeping over at someone's house a lot more and leave home as soon as an opportunity arises. (college)
Also, try to make communications with parents minimal, so out of state may be best for you.