Zephyr of Darkness Wrote:Anyway, Wise, that was a joke. Since the girl got emotional for what you said, I did the same too XDThat's not necessarily an incorrect interpretation, except I would change it more to the hypothetical: "I would have chosen better." I don't see why it should be so offensive if I can explain to a girl why her decision was poor. When I make a bad decision, I don't mind people pointing out to me where I erred.
Thing is, us girls do more of a "between lines" reading. If you tell her "You can choose better", she doesn't hear "You can choose better", she hears "You're not smart enough to make right choices, and I don't hold in high regard your thinking ability. Mine is better. You are inferior". Maybe you think it's twisted, but that's how we're wired.
Raze the Judgement Wrote:They'll forget what you told them like a week from now, why bother? What you should be telling them is to just be cool and be yourself, god knows you'll get a girl that likes you for who you are. Also, it does help to take the initiative and just ask her out.I don't forget good advice, but I also strive to be honest in everything I do, even if it's not so conducive to getting girls to like me. In other words, I do follow the advice of being myself, for better or worse.
"I looked up and saw you;
I know that you saw me.
We froze but for a moment
In empathy."-Rise Against