12-09-2008, 02:17 AM
Zeph I thought you were long gone from the site, good to see otherwise!
Wise probably did something good for the girl no matter how pissed off she got. I mean you can say "it will all be okay" forever, but that doesn't mean its gonna result in serious thought on the changes that need to be made. Hell my girlfriend is out of school at the moment, needs to go back, and I bring up the subject occasionally with ideas for her, and it usually results in her saying "let's not talk about it right now". But I'm not going to stop saying anything for long because it's a change she knows she needs to make, she can make the choice on her own, but if I can wedge an idea in there cool.
Wise, you probably just need to pick your battles a bit better but by no means should you lie down and submit everytime.
Wise probably did something good for the girl no matter how pissed off she got. I mean you can say "it will all be okay" forever, but that doesn't mean its gonna result in serious thought on the changes that need to be made. Hell my girlfriend is out of school at the moment, needs to go back, and I bring up the subject occasionally with ideas for her, and it usually results in her saying "let's not talk about it right now". But I'm not going to stop saying anything for long because it's a change she knows she needs to make, she can make the choice on her own, but if I can wedge an idea in there cool.
Wise, you probably just need to pick your battles a bit better but by no means should you lie down and submit everytime.
Believe in yourself! Not you who believe in me, not me, who believes in you.
Believe in you, who believes in yourself!
- Kamina of the Dai Gurren Brigade