10-27-2003, 06:42 PM
I don't think your roomate is giving you the time of day because he feels you have a crush on him. It seems strange that he is your best friend, yet he won't even go have a drink with ya. I think you should explain things, that he's one of your best friends, and that it hurts that he won't spend time with you. If it makes him feel more comfortable, tell him he should invite a friend or something. He just might not like the idea of just the two of you going somewhere.
It strikes me that you've already taken the first, most dificult step in telling him about your sexuality. And I will have to comend you on that, I have never been able to tell any of my real life friends about almost anything I do online, and as for sexuality, well I never really found myself looking for anything in particular. I'd best describe myself as Anti-Sexual right now, you try explaining that to someone >_>
It strikes me that you've already taken the first, most dificult step in telling him about your sexuality. And I will have to comend you on that, I have never been able to tell any of my real life friends about almost anything I do online, and as for sexuality, well I never really found myself looking for anything in particular. I'd best describe myself as Anti-Sexual right now, you try explaining that to someone >_>