dammit

[milk me!]

Cool. Thanks for understanding Organous. It's funny because I have some friends who are really open to homosexuality and who I really think would still be friends with me if I told them I was attracted to them (and it wasn't exactly mutual). Unfortunately my roommate isn't exactly like that. He's superconservative and very easily disgusted. I mean, all it takes is the site of two guys holding hands on TV to get him to shudder or turn away from the screen (while saying "ewwwww!" or whatever). We get along great but I can't really get him to loosen up. He won't go out to concerts with me, and he won't go drinking with me. It's not like I'm asking him to get drunk or anything... just one beer! I think it would be a fun thing to do but to him it's unthinkable.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I know him well enough to know that he wouldn't be able to deal with the fact that I'm into him and wouldn't mind having a closer relationship with him. So while telling him isn't out of the question, I don't consider it to be any kind of productive option.

I would be curious to know what passage refers to straight guys raping other guys just to prove their dominance. I've never heard that before. I don't want to grab onto any old context that might debunk the anti-gay message that most people read into the Bible, but I would want to investigate it and see where it leads.

Do you have a boyfriend? I'm not hitting on you, just wondering what kind of experiences you've had.