Hey ppl,
Theres this new guy who has just come to my school. He seems very quite but like me he is really good at drawing. I tried talking to him because i kinda feel sry for him, since he does not have any friends. Does anyone have any advise or experience with noobs?
You can start talking about what hobbies you have then talk about his. You can also ask where he lives and stuff, help him out with class work and stuff, and just keep talking and getting to know him and let him know you!
Why though? do you like him or something? Have a problem with socializing? lol.
No I have my own pack of friends but sometimes I get tired of the same faces, you know what I mean?
Nah, I don't but what ever, it's your life. lol. Oh, and try not to get wired with him yet. >> Get to know each other more, first. lol
just ask him how he's adjusting or something, maybe make small talk. don't want to go scaring him off on the first try now do we? just hang out a bit, but don't ask too personal questions.
another thing,dont feel sorry. Feel proud to be one to become friends with him. But be warned, sociopaths are normally the quiet ones. (I am a good example)
(04-15-2010, 09:15 AM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ]But be warned, sociopaths are normally the quiet ones
Speak for yourself Ryan, I'm quiet and i'm not a sociopath...at least i don't think i am.
All i can say is, try to make conversation with the person, see if there's anything you two both like and focus on those bits. Don't try to challenge or criticize what they're into that you don't like, because not everyone likes feeling like they have to justify what they like.
If the relation builds into a close one from that, well done. If not, then bad luck and try again with the next person you meet
No no no, they have it all wrong, you hire someone to try to push him off a cliff, then at the last moment save him and then force feed him 2 pies every day to keep him under your spell.
Just say "Hi". Why not? Worst case scenario is that they're ME and turn out to be a completely unlikeable douche. .. Or is that the BEST case scenario?
The best. I love douches! -Unless you mean the people kinda douches. Then I just like em. X3
Here's my advice: Sex as an icebreaker?