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Well its not necessarily an issue that is life-threatening or anything, and thankfully enough I'm not posting here because of arguing with someone or anything like that. Its mostly because I need consoling; I am currently dating someone really sweet and all that is just one of the nicest guys ever, but at the same time there's someone else who I had a really strong attraction and liking to as well. :(

Now of course I won't cheat or as they say 'have an affair' or anything but this is killing me. I really like the person I'm with right now but I also like this other guy who I always had considered like a best friend and showed heavy interest in me. The thing is I get jealous whenever he RPs with someone else -yes I just hinted it might be someone on here, don't say any names-, and after I told him I was going out with someone things haven't been the same.

Ugh, I don't know if I need advice or just need someone to console me, maybe both. :\ Its just really painful to endure because I care about the both of them, and I had to pick from between them. And even though it was a win-win situation in terms of being with someone really sweet, it was also win-lose because the other person would have been seriously hurt.. ugh..

~Shadow

PS: Oh btw, on a slightly positive note, yay to summer coming next week?

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Love is certainly a cruel mistress. There's not much to do here but decide who you care about more, even if they're hurt this is about your feelings (currently, not saying you should be selfish) because either way you're hurting someone, therefore the only tiebreaker CAN be your feelings.

True enough, it just feels weird. And the one who I didn't pick is kind of well, changed. :( He doesn't really show as much enthusiasm talking to me and all which he used to have plenty of. It was always really nice to see and stuff.

Well, let's see. Maybe you should try to tell your boyfriend that you have need time to think about your relationship with him. Tell him you need to have a break from him of course not literally meaning a break up from him, but because your obviously having a rough time choosing who you are like and you need time to reconsider who you want to spend your entire life with. With all honesty I think he should understand the situation you've been going to.

The break literally means you could flirt with other people or give them kisses*depending if you don't mind however you could add that as a rule for not having other peoples kiss* or no sex. Just spending time with another being although if you truly miss that person being around with you. You could always go back and become together again and you are sure that you are willing to be with that boyfriend you like.

Pick the underdog, whichever does the worst with women or has the least experience with women.

Nice, Wise.

Anyhow, Lily has it, that's some solid advice. Just make sure to think on it enough.