Man okay. This was happening a bit ago but now its just plain out giving me a head ache. Okay one of my friends is pissed at me for being friends with someone he hates. So he quit talking to me. Now when i PM/E-mail him he fails to respond. Now this isnt different than any other time. But this is where the fact i would have to chose who i would be friends with. So i told him "Why the fuck do i hang with you then?" Then he says for me to calm down then we can talk. Its been lets see....4 days and i have been calm. I even told him i am calm. But no this is how it worked out. He blocked my AIM Yahoo, MSN just because i like hanging with someone he hates. *sigh* Man if people could get any moronic i would be amazed that even i live in such non sense. Ah well.
Then don't worry about the kid if he's being such a baby. He's forcing you to pick a friend, so pick one and be done with it.
Thats the things. I shouldnt have to pick one.
Just tell him it's no business of his who you're also friends with. All that should matter between you two is YOUR friendship, noone elses. If he remains with the same mindset of "either i go or he goes" then let him go. If he's giving you grief for who you befriend, then he's not a good friend.
(05-28-2009, 09:38 PM)Guilmon and a shotgun Wrote: [ -> ]Just tell him it's no business of his who you're also friends with. All that should matter between you two is YOUR friendship, noone elses. If he remains with the same mindset of "either i go or he goes" then let him go. If he's giving you grief for who you befriend, then he's not a good friend.
I agree. Friendship shouldn't be a pick-and-choose scenario. Although in these cases, it does show who your true friends are, since in my opinion if he is a good friend he shouldn't get upset with whoever you befriend yourself. Though if he does continue to ignore you, just wait until he's ready to talk to you again. As it seems, he may be trying to get you to leave the one he hates in this method.
I would go the sneaky way and tell him you cut all ties with yer other friend then just talk to yer other friend when friend#1 (friend making you choose) is not around.
Uh okay. I think i forgot to mention he wont respond or read any of my messages. XD
Ah, well then ... dangit can't say that. Uhhh... well just do yer best! (that's the best I can do without cursing...)
You're probably going to lose at least one of them.
I believe he already lost the friend making ultimatums.