Okay . . . this is going to be a long one guys . . . so you might want to get some popcorn and relax.
Anyways. As most of you guys know, my mom drinks excessively every night and then becomes two-faced. She starts drinking after about 5pm every night. She has an 8-inch plastic cup full of Gin & Tonic . . . and there
thats so sad....you're going to your dads house? well i hope its better there. :)
At least now you'll be in seemingly more responsible hands. For a bit, stop worrying about your friends at school, it's not like you are never going to be with them again, and you know it. Remember that distance can't separate good friends. For now and whole summer, think about your own mental safety, okay? I wouldn't want you trastorned after all these problems. Let's just hope your summer vacation will go at its best thanks to being with your dad instead of your mom, okay?
Can't you choose who you live with after the age of 12? If I were you, I'd get the hell out and not look back.
senjuro Wrote:Can't you choose who you live with after the age of 12? If I were you, I'd get the hell out and not look back.
well, you have to go through a trial first don't you? the one in question has the right to get thier sayings and who they want to go to live with IF they are at or above the age of 12.
ok, so at least you get to move in with your dad. sorry you lost your bird though. and like DMX said, at least you'll be living with someone more responsible. and from what you said about your dad it should be more fun than where your at now. sure more strict but a better price to pay than getting yelled at all day.
she wasn't taking your inherited money though was she? well, thats not for me to know, but just asking.
hmm, oh and I found out that since you called the cops on her, it really isn't a bad thing, but its not really a good thing if she decides to use it against you, she could say that your a troublemaker and what not. but there is a slim chance that it would work...but who am I to say?
anyway I wish you guys luck over there
DragonMasterX Wrote:At least now you'll be in seemingly more responsible hands. For a bit, stop worrying about your friends at school, it's not like you are never going to be with them again, and you know it. Remember that distance can't separate good friends. For now and whole summer, think about your own mental safety, okay? I wouldn't want you trastorned after all these problems. Let's just hope your summer vacation will go at its best thanks to being with your dad instead of your mom, okay?
I couldnt say it any better than that. Next time at school grab all of your friends' phone numbers, cell numbers, e-mails, MSN accounts and what not to stay in touch. If you were to ask your friends what you should do I guarentee you they would say you should live with your dad.
No one under any circumstance should have to live with a parent seemingly uncapable of taking care of you. In my opinion your mom is beyond help and unfit to raise you.
Check your mom into rehab and be done with it.
You know that does sound like a good idea.
Too bad in order to go to rehab, you need a lot of money, and the other thing, is that the participate has to be either under court order, or they have to give consent. Both conditions wouldn't be met, unless she can talk her mom into believing that she is drunk and all..
BTW Misty, I had already told you what I think you should do, even if you hate it. Your mom is causing a strain on your life and you need to leave that environment for good. Get here BF to take her to a dang clinic. Otherwise, move and no worries. About the thing with the money, lets just say your father sounds really fishy, I guess they both want to see what this "inheritance" is all about.
Be safe and laterz Misty...
Wisemon Wrote:Check your mom into rehab and be done with it.
Yeah I would love to, but I know her well enough to know that she won't go to rehab...believe me.
LonelyGabu Wrote:About the thing with the money, lets just say your father sounds really fishy, I guess they both want to see what this "inheritance" is all about.
Gabs...my dad is the most reliable and most trustworthy person I have ever known. He wants to know about it because he doesn't want my mom to be tapping into it and stealing it. My mom always tells me that she has extra money saved somewhere. Now that sounds a little fishy. He wants to know because my mom is being really selfish about it and never wanted my dad to know about it when she's the one that ended up telling him.
But I thank you all for your help...and I will update you guys as to what will be happening ASAP. I have an idea about what's happening. I'm definitely moving in with my dad during the summer.
That means that Gol and I have to wait another year to see each other which sucks, but I'm cool with it and so is he. ^_^