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Wow...I had such a good time tonight hanging out with Roran and going out to eat...as soon as I come home, I change the way I act into not caring and kinda depressed. Before I hung out with Collin today, we went to parent/teacher conferences which was a bad idea. My grades aren't that good in 2 classes. I can't concentrate anymore because my mind is always on stuff that happens at home. That's all I can think about. Now my mom and her boyfriend aren't doing so good (w00t, Roran..he better leave!!!) and she's about to kick him out. I just tried explaining to my mom that she's the reason behind my bad grades. Before I even finished my sentence, she interrupted me with 'That's not an excuse' and blah blah blah. Everyone else understands that except for her.......why? Because she doesn't want to hear it. My dad understands it perfectly because he had to deal with her when she became an alcoholic and knows what it's like. She yelled at me earlier before we went to conferences because I was trying to explain something else to her and she bitched at ME because SHE has the bathroom door closed with the radio blasted while doing her hair...and I fucking cried.

She called me just now and told me that she can't take her boyfriend anymore...he lies, he tells stories that don't add up, he smothers my mom and she hates it...he watches every move she makes...he probably doens't trust her...he's a bad influence because she's drinking more...

Anyway...I try as much as I can to not be at home because of everything. My mom doesn't trust me which makes it hard on me because I can't talk to her about anything. When I try talking to her about why she pisses me off, she defends herself then bitches me out. Whenever I'm in a good mood, she ALWAYS has to ruin it...I'm a hermit crab when it comes to home. I'm always in my room to avoid contact with my mom and/or her boyfriend...Roran calls him a pedophile...I think he is...lol. I'm just so sick of everything...she ruins everything for me...

The only time I'm happy is when I'm either at school or with friends. My friends are my family more than my mom is family to me. She acts like she doesn't give a shit about anything. I'm going to be happy when I can finally move out...

I'm really sorry about that Misty. At least you know we can be your family also. I wish I could offer you a good solution to this mess, but i have never really gone through anything like this. Be happy that you at least have you're friends who you can spend time with. If I can do anything to help please tell me.

You know if you provide good evidence that you don't have a good home environment you could get emancipated. But look that up first.

I kind of go through the same thing...but on a far lesser level than that. my mom doesn't drink, she goes to the casino, she doesn't have a boyfriend, but she does bitch...alot. either it's us, or someone else, then life and hers. then when a cmmercial such as save the children is on she bitches somemore about how lucky we are, then bitches more about other stuff.

sometimes I feel like leaving for good, or just slap her...although I don't do anything...isn't that unhealthy to bottle things in? anyway I don't do nothing until it's so bad that I just come back home and sleep it off....other than that I don't know how to help...

All my mom does is bitch. I can spend the entire day cleaning up the house and she'll come home and start shouting at me because I missed a newspaper or something. But at least you got good friends to help you through it.

Look up what Unknown was tlaking about: your mother isn't in the best of states to be a parent right now, if she's drinking so much. She needs rehabilitating before she can look after a teenager properly.

I will consider doing what Unknown said...but the thing is..I don't want to leave this town, nor the school that I'm at. I found an article about it..

http://www.gogebic.org/juvemanc.htm

I'm still looking around, but we will see what happens. My mom and her boyfriend might end it..but we'll see what happens...for now, I will have to keep ignoring her and dealing with everything...

okay I'm truly sorry for this...but GOD FUCKING DAMMIT!!! DAMMIT ALL TO HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ARGH!

My mom and her boyfriend got things worked out!!!

*falls on knees and screams* NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

That's it, I'm getting my katanas and coming over there. Oh wait... the police said they'd throw the book at me if I was involved in any mass murders again. Stupid law.

Well this is not a joke but you could move in with other family if you get that done. Or maybe roran's family if you and they can convince the court you're in a bad home and you need a better one. I saw this idea on tv once.