So I have basically taken notice that the three people I consider(ed) my closest friends don't really give a crap about me. I mean they always hang out and never invite me, though they always "mean to call me." Biggest of all I'm pretty sure the one I consider my best friend lied to me recently, because he and the other two all took the same week off, they were all going up north (though apparently not together) and all of their plans fell through...(not together? BS!!!)...so yeah they are hardly friends if they lie to me and I think the only reason they will only hang out with me is if my best friend is there because the other two have the hots for him.
Fuckers.
Plant seeds of hatred and mistrust in your best friend via rumor and heresay about the other two. Then sit back and bask in the glory as you watch their relationships deteriorate.
At least, that's what I'd do if I was feelin' dirty.
This reminds me of a friend's birthday party when I was ten. There were about four kids from the block. I thought they were at least casual friends of mine. When it was time for the water balloon fight, they surrounded me and pelted me at point blank range. They didn't really use any balloons on each other.
Hang in there. Don't let it get you down.
you make new friends, and ignore them after that...thats what i did...
I'm hangin in there, thanks all.
out of the three of them, two are still on my shit list, but the third feels that same as I. She's not mad at me, but she's about given up on friendships too.
i had the same problem you have, friends who never include you in anything, but with me it was worse, they insulted me everyday and eventually i thought i could not make friends, i needed them so i wouldn't be alone, but the 2 people in our group that knew me the least also felt the exact same way as i did, so one day i just told them this and that we should ditch the other 3 and they agreed, after that, we started our own little group of friends and we made new friends. maybe you should do just the same, tell your friend who hates the other two that maybe you should ditch the other 2 and make new friends, it worked for me, no sense in it not working for you...
Quote:the 2 people in our group that knew me the least also felt the exact same way as i did, so one day i just told them this and that we should ditch the other 3 and they agreed, after that, we started our own little group of friends and we made new friends. maybe you should do just the same, tell your friend who hates the other two that maybe you should ditch the other 2 and make new friends, it worked for me, no sense in it not working for you...
Yep, that's how super groups get formed. My personal favorites are Audioslave and Velvet Revolver.
heh...i was talkin' 'bout a group of friends. the band i'm in is completely different thing...
It's kind of hard to make new friends because I don't really have the time, I've met some new people at school but the only reason I was such good friends with these people is that they all work with me and I work 5 days a week, till 10:30 at least most nights and then have school 3 days a week, with homework in there, I don't have a lot of fun time.