I still have feeling's for my ex and I need help!

[Wisemon]

I still have feelings for the first girl I dated, and that was also three years ago. I don't think you really get over it. You have to say to yourself that it was another lifetime, which is tough. I try to approach dating and relationships analytically. I know almost exactly what I want in a woman, and I try to come as close as I can. When you think about it that way, your new boyfriend should be better than your ex. If he isn't, seeing how your ex dumped you for another girl, maybe it's due to your own shortcomings, and the boyfriend you have now is the best you can find. In which case, you should learn to accept him, because he accepted you.