Passion in sex scenes

[Nate Hunter]

You know, Mr. Big T, some of us actually have principles against such things. Please be serious about the topic, and refrain from such suggestions. They disgust me greatly. Thank you.

Actually I was being serious but I'll try and give another tip instead then if you've got principal problem.

He meant serious about the emotional connection. A one night stand or quickie does not have an emotional connection like two people who are in love. He's trying to write love, not just a fuck.

Roleplay/cyber the scenery with a person.


Since the other person isn't you, they'll most likely react to the scene in different manner than you. That way, you'll be able to get some genuine seeming mood and atmosphere (Because most likely, you'll both be in the mood too and it'll be even more realistic). Plus it can be really fun, especially if you can get hold on a girl who's into {the same things as you are}.

For those with a policy against doing it in person, but who do not feel uncomfortable in such a situation, I would definitely recommend this as a way of pursuing knowledge about how to improve the quality of your sex scenes, whether they are going to be independent scenes or emotionally charged. Just make sure you know the person you're doing it with first, and hopefully one of you has a good way of handling roleplaying.