08-01-2006, 01:42 PM
Maybe because he has his own way of thinking; right or wrong, it's his.
Roran, they aren't trying to change how you feel about this, don't take it as if they consider you dumb kid completely wrong and oblivious about his surroundings and with his own stupid ideas. They are just giving you advice, maybe they are too direct, maybe they are too harsh; but what they say is true, changing your body in the exterior won't make you better person than you already are, you might feel good two or three days, maybe weeks, but you'll eventually become bored of it. You'll eventually want to remove what you will have done to yourself, but then, it will be too late, the changes will be done, and there won't be a turning back then.
As Nate said, mutilating your perfectly natural body won't make you become more attached to it, instead, you are showing amounts of lacks of respect towards it, it's not the body looks what you should change, maybe it's what you have inside what you ought to reconsider how you should take this. If you do this, then you'll feel good... for now, but then, you'll only feel bad, and without suffering a lot, you will never be able to go back to be like before, you'll be missing something, and you'll know it.
Maybe I'm being delirious about my own way of thinking, but if you want to get attached to your body, changing it will separate it from you even more.
I know: parents don't tend to tell you this in this way, they didn't give you any arguments acceptable enough so you changed your mind, right? They just told you ''No'' and ''Its for your own good'' right? Well, maybe you should try to sit with your mother and talk SERIOUSLY about this points, and make sure she DOES listen to you COMPLETELY. Then, maybe then, you'll be able to find out what all of we are saying. It's your choice to manipulate your body as you want, but be careful, sometimes what seems good and easy comes with a big price to pay later.
Roran, they aren't trying to change how you feel about this, don't take it as if they consider you dumb kid completely wrong and oblivious about his surroundings and with his own stupid ideas. They are just giving you advice, maybe they are too direct, maybe they are too harsh; but what they say is true, changing your body in the exterior won't make you better person than you already are, you might feel good two or three days, maybe weeks, but you'll eventually become bored of it. You'll eventually want to remove what you will have done to yourself, but then, it will be too late, the changes will be done, and there won't be a turning back then.
As Nate said, mutilating your perfectly natural body won't make you become more attached to it, instead, you are showing amounts of lacks of respect towards it, it's not the body looks what you should change, maybe it's what you have inside what you ought to reconsider how you should take this. If you do this, then you'll feel good... for now, but then, you'll only feel bad, and without suffering a lot, you will never be able to go back to be like before, you'll be missing something, and you'll know it.
Maybe I'm being delirious about my own way of thinking, but if you want to get attached to your body, changing it will separate it from you even more.
I know: parents don't tend to tell you this in this way, they didn't give you any arguments acceptable enough so you changed your mind, right? They just told you ''No'' and ''Its for your own good'' right? Well, maybe you should try to sit with your mother and talk SERIOUSLY about this points, and make sure she DOES listen to you COMPLETELY. Then, maybe then, you'll be able to find out what all of we are saying. It's your choice to manipulate your body as you want, but be careful, sometimes what seems good and easy comes with a big price to pay later.
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