Are my morals making me miss out?

[Wisemon]

Care to explain why something that comes in your instinct should be awkward? This reminds me of when my future colleagues frightened us telling "when you get out there and face the patients, it's a whole new world. Nothing of what you've studied can prepare you for that". I remember my first patient crystal clear. I was in 3rd year in a hospital tour (you're not supposed to touch a patient until you're in 4th) and this really nice professor told me "You feel confident enough to make a masotherapy?" I answered "Yes!!!" So he gave me the directions and I entered the box where she was. It was a 36 yo fat woman with lumbago. When I entered, I was the image of confidence. I gave her the directions instructed (tell me if it hurts, etc.) and performed a brilliant 25 minutes masotherapy (it is my specialty, after all ) When I left I asked her how did she feel and she told me "I was sore but now I'm not". Good, I told myself and faced my professor again with a bright smile. He thanked me.

Now there's a nice metaphor/innuendo. I would say that the whole "sexual chemistry" is an invention of our culture. If it's not working, but the personalities click, I believe the partners could probably make the sex work, though they might have to resort to the aid of medications. Chances are, it would be one partner's fault, and that partner wouldn't be able to find "chemistry" with anyone else anyway.