07-20-2006, 10:51 AM
I'm nineteen. And now that I think about it, I probably did something stupid on prom night last year. My girlfriend and I went to a secluded spot to fool around after prom and I talked about how I wish we could go all the way. She asked me if I would do if she had a condom and I said no. I kind of wish I had said yes now.
Is there any shame in doing it with a girl you don't plan on marrying, because my best friend's sister and I fooled around too (Though we both had an affection for each other, we also knew it was only a close friendship, not a romance. And just so you know, I asked her if she wanted to fool around and she said she didn't mind, so it was consensual). She's not there right now (for reasons I don't want to go into), but I'm thinking about asking her if she wants to fool around again when she gets back.
Is there any shame in doing it with a girl you don't plan on marrying, because my best friend's sister and I fooled around too (Though we both had an affection for each other, we also knew it was only a close friendship, not a romance. And just so you know, I asked her if she wanted to fool around and she said she didn't mind, so it was consensual). She's not there right now (for reasons I don't want to go into), but I'm thinking about asking her if she wants to fool around again when she gets back.