02-20-2006, 02:04 PM
Zephyr of Darkness Wrote:Some time ago I read an article based on Jung's psychology about how women that had had bad relationships with their fathers behave toward men. Hell, it depicted me EXACTLY!!! What I thought it was a thoughtful and conscious behavior turned out to be a mere mechanism, me being just a slave of my unsolved emotions. I froze in awe when I saw that, and knew right away that I HAD to change before trying anything again. BTW, did you do some kind of psychological work to improve?
Nope, no work to improve. I just pick my battles and bite my tongue. If it's not worth fighting about, I tend not to engage the enemy. My family is a family of fighters, though. If the other person won't fight, we'll bait them into it. Really cruel, actually, but at least it's intellectually stimulating!
Quote:Oh, and I asked you that because a year ago or so I asked all my suitors in the net (I had a bunch back then) if they would allow me to dress up as a slut if we would go out (of course I was nicer on my question to you). And none of them gave me an answer like yours. They all said half committed answers like 'Maybe' 'Yeah, sometimes' 'It depends'. None gave me the role of an adult. But see, it could have been worse (saying 'Of course not!), but you see, I DO have some self esteem. They DID know I wouldn't accept sth that would cut my freedom like that.
Well it just goes to show you how controlling some people can really be. Personally, I'm not a fan of exercising extreme control over other people. The more in check you try to keep something, the less control you end up having. Just look at uber-restrictive parents; their kids are usually in juvie by the time they're 16.
Again, I commend you for not "settling for less" just to have a relationship. It's sad to see how many people do that and end up being miserable.
Quote:But then again, you don't find guys as nice as you around easily.
Hee hee.... *blushes* thanks for the compliment, but I'm nothing nearly that special.
And Mullen, you fight the power, bro. Personally, I'm also a fan of proving supposed "scientific proof" utterly wrong. I'm already shattering the belief that video games turn the brain and social life to mush.