Jilted!??!!! How dare they!!

[Zephyr of Darkness]

Back then when I was with Unknown I realized that my awful relationship with my father had contaminated my other relationships too. I know that unless I can have some control over that I'll never be able to have the relationship I want. So I just have to sit back for now...
Oh, and indeed too, you're so nice with her. Do you mind if she wears miniskirts?

I don't have a super realtionship with my mother, and for a while, that was really making my life hellish, and my relationships a whole lot harder to manage. I lashed out at people a lot and was pretty bitter for a long time. What you say is true, you have to be happy with yourslef before you can have the kind of relationship you want.

And in answer to your question, I wouldn't mind at all. She doesn't though. She wears long skirts or pants most of the time. She can dress how she likes. Who am I to tell her what she can and can't do with herself?

Some time ago I read an article based on Jung's psychology about how women that had had bad relationships with their fathers behave toward men. Hell, it depicted me EXACTLY!!! What I thought it was a thoughtful and conscious behavior turned out to be a mere mechanism, me being just a slave of my unsolved emotions. I froze in awe when I saw that, and knew right away that I HAD to change before trying anything again. BTW, did you do some kind of psychological work to improve?

Oh, and I asked you that because a year ago or so I asked all my suitors in the net (I had a bunch back then) if they would allow me to dress up as a slut if we would go out (of course I was nicer on my question to you). And none of them gave me an answer like yours. They all said half committed answers like 'Maybe' 'Yeah, sometimes' 'It depends'. None gave me the role of an adult. But see, it could have been worse (saying 'Of course not!), but you see, I DO have some self esteem. They DID know I wouldn't accept sth that would cut my freedom like that.
But then again, you don't find guys as nice as you around easily.