01-19-2006, 07:22 AM
Quote:You know what, Zeph? I think I'm coming to accept that he and I just don't connect anymore. He makes no effort to socialize with him, and I'm too miffed to try and organise something with him. Maybe I've outgrown it, I dunno. It's just sad. He was the first real friend I had, and now I don't even think of him as a friend anymore.Ok, I'm back. I wanted to tell you about a friend I have here in the net that happened sth like that. I liked her a lot, and she was the first person that uploaded my pics in her site. We used to mail a lot, when I realized I was always the one mailing her and she just answered me. One day, she started mailing me back bullshit, stuff that had nothing to do with what we were talking about. She did it twice, so I stopped mailing her for a long while (can't remember, but I think it was 2 or 3 months). I mailed her again and she continued with the bullshit. So I never mailed her again. And guess what? She never did either. This was about...2 years ago.
It's sad to part with a long and dear relationship, but why don't you try to get some distance for a while, to see if he's still interested, like I did?
Just remember something:Relationships of any kind is a two way thing. If you do all you can for this friend and doesn't appreciate it, you better look for sb who does. You're a really nice guy and deserve better than that.
About parties....I went to the last in my last year at high school, when I was 17. And after 2 hours or so, when the food had been eaten, nobody knew what else to do, so they all tried stupid stuff that lasted 5 minutes at most. And I had a guy after me that since I had rejected him (he tried to make me look as if I was his girlfriend in front of a former girlfriend :roll: and he thought he was the Casanova of the school) he dedicated to introduce me to every single guy that was there in the party :roll: .
If all parties are like that, I sure don't miss them.