11-30-2004, 11:07 AM
Quote:When a girl and a guy who were friends begin to date,it's possible that he still treats her as a friend. And a woman wants to feel that she's a woman, if you know what I mean. That's why I think most romances btw friends usually collapse soon.If you're right, and unfortunately, I think you are, that would create an incredibly thin line, at least in America, between doing what is necessary for a relationship and sexual harassment. That doesn't even account for how hard it is for a shy guy to make a move. At my gutsiest, I managed to make date plans, and I somehow managed to try for a kiss, and neither of those worked. That took everything I had, and while dominance wasn't the problem there, the discouragement is certainly going to keep me from trying anything risky like that for a while. I guess what I'm trying to say is...what the fuck is wrong with your gender? Take, if you want a slice, if you want a piece, if it feels alright.
Yeah, I know, there's your slut argument, but if there's a classy way for a guy to do it, there has to be a graceful way for a girl. Anything is better than a guy's pickup and progression lines.
"I looked up and saw you;
I know that you saw me.
We froze but for a moment
In empathy."-Rise Against