my special penpal

[Sarita]

and you should also consider that it may simply be impossible (Or at least extremely difficult) for her to be aroused by a shorter man. It's actually quite common, especially for a woman who likes to feel protected.

I love how relationships have to have sex involved.

But if thats all this was for was to be aroused and to have sex with people. Then be my guest and date this fellow. But if for love do it to. You are not messing anything up. Your not doing any wrong. Are opinions are meaningless to you, or at least it should be. Do what you must say what you will. But happy life to you las.

If she was just looking for a friend to talk to, height wouldn't be an issue. Plus, her previous posts on the subject indicated a desire to have sex with a large man. thus, my sex comment.

In my opinion, a relationship needs more than just sex, but pretending that it isn't a factor in some way would be naive at best.

I also think that intelligence is more important than body type in a long term relationship. But if you're just looking to hook up (Not something I'd reccomend) then the reverse would be true. There are obviously some who would disagree with me on this, and I respect their right to do so.


Also, Wise, for a woman to be sexually aroused by a man who does not fit what she percieves as her type, she would need a very good imagination, or at least some other kind of stimulus such as her favorite porn video to help her fantasize about who she would rather be with.


And for the record, why would it matter if a shorter man could kick my ass? First, I'm exclusively lesbian. Second, I'm the tall one in the relationship. And third, it is easier for a smaller person to feel physically protected in the arms of a larger person, whether or not the larger person is actually capable of offering that protection is irrelevant. (For instance, my gf is about 6 inches shorter than me, but could kick my ass without hardly trying.. Yet, she says she feels much safer with me around.)