Every time I start to believe, something's raped and taken

[AnironUndomiel]

holy shit dude, i feel like its the same girl we are talking about here. my girlfriend used to do ALL the things you described above, the reluctance to do anythin that might further a relationship. Just watch out dude, and don't screw up. Girls like her dont talk to you if theres a misunderstanding, they keep it bottled up and let it fester into a seething rage. Then when you least expect it, she blows up in your face. I know from personal experience. She then also expects you to know what you did wrong, but of course, what you did wrong was a month ago, and you cant remember. Each time you apologize for the wrong thing you push her further away, until finally one day she calls you up, cusses you out, and is never heard from again. (im beginning to think those homosexual guys have the right idea...)