03-04-2004, 04:51 AM
wow this is so freaky, i had a relationship last year thats almost exactly like what you are going through. Notice how i said HAD, and im not really sure what happened.
Anyway, the story was like this, i noticed this girl in my french class who seems a bit shy, and once on a group project i started talking to her, and we really connected. Seems we both had a pretty rough childhood, and we both liked and hated the same things, so it was natural for us to set a date.
We then proceeded to do all the stuff couples do, like watching movies, rollerblading, biking, and just hangin together. She told me that she didnt really wanna take the relationship too fast, so i just stopped with my advances, and let her take teh initiative.
Anyway, a few months later, i realized we were growing apart slowly, so one day i stopped her and asked what was going on with our relationship. She totally cussed me out, called me all kinds of things that came out of nowhere. I tried to reason with myself, and try to find what i had done wrong, but i really couldnt figure out anything. I took in the possiblility that it was a bad time of the month, and tried talking to her again a week later, and she just plain ignored me...
Even now im not sure what happened, and since shes a recluse, i couldnt find out from her friends. Anyway, im not sure how this helps, but just to warn ya, watch urself, and know that the littlest of mistakes or misunderstandings can totally fuck up ur relationship
Anyway, the story was like this, i noticed this girl in my french class who seems a bit shy, and once on a group project i started talking to her, and we really connected. Seems we both had a pretty rough childhood, and we both liked and hated the same things, so it was natural for us to set a date.
We then proceeded to do all the stuff couples do, like watching movies, rollerblading, biking, and just hangin together. She told me that she didnt really wanna take the relationship too fast, so i just stopped with my advances, and let her take teh initiative.
Anyway, a few months later, i realized we were growing apart slowly, so one day i stopped her and asked what was going on with our relationship. She totally cussed me out, called me all kinds of things that came out of nowhere. I tried to reason with myself, and try to find what i had done wrong, but i really couldnt figure out anything. I took in the possiblility that it was a bad time of the month, and tried talking to her again a week later, and she just plain ignored me...
Even now im not sure what happened, and since shes a recluse, i couldnt find out from her friends. Anyway, im not sure how this helps, but just to warn ya, watch urself, and know that the littlest of mistakes or misunderstandings can totally fuck up ur relationship