02-17-2004, 06:54 AM
A few things:
1. Yeah, fanboys do have some unexplicable attraction to redhead girls. The first two years of high school, I was in a carpool where I spent almost every morning sitting next to a very tall and very well-proportioned redhead. I had to start bringing a book every morning to keep from trying to look up her skirt.
2. Don't obsess over what your friend might have done. You don't even know that she had sex with the guy, you only assumed it because she sounded flustered when you called her on the phone. Keep in mind that you were already jealous at the time, and jealousy can warp our brains if we let it. I know this from experience, since when I started courting my current girlfriend, I got into near-homicidal moods whenever I saw her talking to other boys.
3. If the girl dumped you, then it's probably just as likely that she'll break up with other boys, and you have the advantage in that you were with her for a long time, and she presumably knows that she can depend on you to treat her well.
1. Yeah, fanboys do have some unexplicable attraction to redhead girls. The first two years of high school, I was in a carpool where I spent almost every morning sitting next to a very tall and very well-proportioned redhead. I had to start bringing a book every morning to keep from trying to look up her skirt.
2. Don't obsess over what your friend might have done. You don't even know that she had sex with the guy, you only assumed it because she sounded flustered when you called her on the phone. Keep in mind that you were already jealous at the time, and jealousy can warp our brains if we let it. I know this from experience, since when I started courting my current girlfriend, I got into near-homicidal moods whenever I saw her talking to other boys.
3. If the girl dumped you, then it's probably just as likely that she'll break up with other boys, and you have the advantage in that you were with her for a long time, and she presumably knows that she can depend on you to treat her well.