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- Gunter VanCrimson - 01-07-2006 Of course you do!!! (hugs nd snuggles senjuro) I-miss-miss-MISSED YA! I spent the days talking to charlie, he doesnt understand, but he's great to talk to, and I've also been cutting myself with a razor. I tell you- I cant live withoput you people! - UnknownH - 01-08-2006 So why have you've been cutting yourself? That's not healthy. - Gabumonfurry - 01-08-2006 Hmm why do people cut themselves? Does it give them a sick pleasure... PLEASE STOP THAT GUNTER ;.; - DragonMasterX - 01-09-2006 Quote:I don't fell cold physically, but emotionally. Whoa, that's deep buddy, I recognize poetry easely but that came from real deep didn't it? Anyways, have another hug! *hugs* And please don't hurt yourself, it won't do anything good to you and the board... :( - Shadowknight - 01-09-2006 Gabumonfurry Wrote:Hmm why do people cut themselves? Does it give them a sick pleasure... PLEASE STOP THAT GUNTER ;.; Some do it so they can have some sort of feeling while others do it as a way of slow suicide. - KS_Naslund - 01-09-2006 Have you really been cutting yourself? :shock: Here are some alternatives to blinding the urge, if they're any help or you wanna stop. (I think the best is just listening to music, which i do about 12 or 13 hours a day, that and going on DaD Some of the other ones were obviously made up by people who have NEVER been angry before). Sorry if i'm imposing by the way... -deep breathing -hold ice cubes in your hands - the cold causes pain in your hands, but it is not dangerous or harmful (some people find it relieves the urge to harm themselves for that moment) -relaxation techniques -call a friend, your therapist or a crisis line -try not be be alone (visit a friend, go shopping, etc.) -take a hot bath -listen to music -go for a walk -write in a journal -wear an elastic around wrist and snap it when you have the urge to harm yourself -some people find it helpful to draw red lines on themselves with -washable markers instead of cutting themselves -punching a bed or a pillow (when nothing but a physical outlet for your anger and frustration will work). -scratch draw a picture on a thick piece of wood or use a screw driver and stab at the piece of wood. (can be another physical way to release your emotions without harming yourself.) -avoid temptation (i.e. avoiding the area in CVS where the razor blades are kept, etc.) -try to find your own creative ways as outlets for emotions. Didn't work? Try these: http://www.mirror-mirror.org/selfinj.htm - Gunter VanCrimson - 01-10-2006 oh- your new here, and I've never met you before... but already youre helping me! before anything else, I would want to give you my welcome! Welcome to the DaD! I hope you enjoy yourself around here! and if you need someone to open up too- we're always here for you- (unless we're offline), but we do our best! wait- you all have to CALM DOWN! I'm not suicidal, okay!? firstly, it isnt as horrible as it sounds, what I meant by "cut" was prick lightly, (I need some blood samples every now and then, I found an old microscope, and I've been studying my blood every 2-3 hours, hence, I need to "cut" myself to produce blood. it's nothing serious, honest!) if I were in extreme anger or pain, I seldom hurt myself- I usually: (without the DaD: ) *talk to charlie *take deep shallow breaths *talk to charlie *cook (no- really. I'm not that good though) *talk to charlie *examine my blood *talk to charlie *masturbate (this has the best effects) *talk to charlie *break something (not always) *talk to charlie *look at pictures (not good, sometimes makes it all worse) *talk to charlie *take my anger out on inanimate objects (works well) *sit outside in the Terrace, where it's freezing enough to calm me down *play with charlie *hug charlie *snuggle charlie *bathe charlie (weather it's needed or not, he doesnt seem to mind) *XXX with charlie (when it all goes wrong) sigh... my arms and hands are covered in bandages, but looking at my blood cells is fun... to me at least, I understand if you find that unreasonable, but to me, its like reading a book. (when I was about seven, I wanted to be a Biochemist/alchemist/scientist/biologist/naturalist, I wasnt like other kids...) - Gunter VanCrimson - 01-10-2006 I listen to music too, of course. but I just put the thing on repeat tracks, and I listen to: Untitled- by simple plan Boulevard of Broken Dreams- by greenday You raise me up- by westlife There you'll be- I forgot. I don't know why, but these are the only ones that have a usual possitive effect on me - mowgly - 01-10-2006 wah some of the reasons why I wanted to chat with you on yahoo gunter. I get suicidal sometimes but I'm getting rid of it a long time ago since I've cut my self (about 1 month and a half ) I didn't do it for seeing my blood I cut my self with a knife with teeth to create pain =o. well when I get like that I can't do much it's not a usuall thing that happens to me it's just when I'm very unstable. - Gunter VanCrimson - 01-10-2006 I'm sorry. :cry: :cry: :cry: I blame myself for not trying hard enough to download it!!! STUPID-STUPID ME!!! :cry: :cry: we're not so different after all... it was before I even heard of the DaD, I was wreck, no sleep- I kept starving myself, I talked to myself a lot, I slashed at my wrist with a steak knife- it hurt a lot- but I decided to stop the bleeding. I spent my days writing depressive poems and stories, I went on walks without much protection, so I was sick all the time. thrice, I cut myself on the arms, long, deep gashes. I still have the scars, so I wear long-sleeves all the time. well... that was long ago, 2 1/2- 3 years ago. I'm not like that anymore... I still feel so bad about you cutting yourself, I feel like it's my fault. Sorry... sorry I hurt you... :cry: |